Getting soft while penetrating

So i have found a new issue with my body.
When i want to start having sex with my gf and we make out i am extremly hard immediately. As soon as we take our cloths off i feel how i get soft. Sometimes i already get soft during making out.

I can start penetrating her then with a 50% hard penis but it doesnt get harder until i come. Its like i am not horny enough.

When we did a second round about 1-2 hours later i fucked her and while i was penetrating her my penis just went soft.

I am not consuming porn for over 1,5years now. What could be my Problem?

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Are you tired (you want to have sex, but tired and try to keep going) not quite in the mood, anxious, in your head, stressed? Maybe cos you felt it failed, the pressure is now on to perform better?

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It is more like… i miss the wish to have sex. I wouldnt be mad if we wouldnt have sex for some time. Maybe my libido is just too low. But i dont know how to fix it.

I mean i get hard if we kiss but it doesnt take long to get back to being soft

Try the exercises on here about libido, many things can lead to low libido, snd tends to go up and down at various points in life and is affected by many things. Even talking to the AI coach helps. Have you tried some of the mojo activities?