How to deal with the feminine smell when eating it?

So my wife and I have been married over six years. Our sex life is mostly fine, frequency is much reduced having two kids, and when we do have sex it’s very vanilla.

I like pleasing her and making her feel good. But, I’ve only managed to go down on her a handful of times, and she wishes I’d do more.

The problem is I just can’t get over the smell. She’s had bacterial vaginosis (BV) a few times and the smell is overwhelming, making me almost vomit. But even when BV is gone, the default “fishy” smell is still quite a turn-off for me.

I know there are plenty of guys that naturally love that feminine scent. Is there a way for me to “get used to it” and start liking it?

Have you tried sugar free flavoured oral sex lubes?

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It’s funny because I asked AI mojo and it suggested the same thing. I will definitely try but I think what I really desire is to somehow switch my brain into liking her taste and smell. There’s nothing hotter than saying to each other “I love how you taste/smell”. She doesn’t exactly reciprocate that either, but I’d like for us to get there.