So my wife and I have been married over six years. Our sex life is mostly fine, frequency is much reduced having two kids, and when we do have sex it’s very vanilla.
I like pleasing her and making her feel good. But, I’ve only managed to go down on her a handful of times, and she wishes I’d do more.
The problem is I just can’t get over the smell. She’s had bacterial vaginosis (BV) a few times and the smell is overwhelming, making me almost vomit. But even when BV is gone, the default “fishy” smell is still quite a turn-off for me.
I know there are plenty of guys that naturally love that feminine scent. Is there a way for me to “get used to it” and start liking it?