Hi everyone , I am currently in a relationship where my girlfriend says she can’t feel me during sex… a lot of it has to do with my erection strength. I am erect enough to penetrate but my girlfriend would like me to be “harder” although I don’t think I can be. Additionally, she gets really wet during sex rather quickly which eliminates the friction . It’s been hard because we have tried everything to improve her feeling my penis during sex ( changing positions etc). I am still able to make her finish in other ways but sometimes we both just want penis to vagina sex . Has anyone dealt with this?
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Hey there, there are definitely times during my girlfriends cycle where she’s more lubricated than other times, and consequently she may feel a bit different. That said, in terms of your erection hardness, I personally use a combination of Tadalafil and a peptide called PT-141. The peptide may be harder to get (unless you’re open to research peptides), but I have to say that my erection quality feels like 110% while using the peptide.
My previous girlfriend would often be too lubricated, to where we would have to wipe off the excess with a towel. That definitely helped too, as you want the right amount of lubrication in order to still feel some friction.
I hope that helps!
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My wife and I have had minimal sensation with penis-in-vagina sex. There have been moments of it feeling good (over many years), but it usually gives way to almost no sensation at all. I’ve generally thought it was due to her being too wet and we haven’t explored solutions to that. Because of the lack of sensation for us, we may do a little of PIV but move onto other ways of stimulating each other. Incidentally, I also attribute this lack of sensation to me loosing my erection after a while of thrusting, but it comes back after with other stimulation.
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