Since I have started to work heavily on my ED several months ago I have made significant progress on myself. However I have also been obsessed with sex. My work and hobbies have suffered as a result. Most importantly, I have been putting a lot of pressure on my wife, scheduling sex etc. While her libido was already low, it has suffered even more because of the pressure. Whenever my wife declines scheduled sex I get super mad, and it sometimes turns into a fight. This is always a major setback for both mine and her mindset and I feel that it is destroying the progress that we have already made.
However, I strongly fear that if I am not pushing for sex we will go back to sexless marriage. On the other hand, me pushing seems to make the situation worse. I have to trust that she will eventually be ready and that I will also be ready right then and now.
This is very hard for me… Any advice is welcome.