How do I not compete with her ex’s sexually

💭 Mental health
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I’m about average sized, slightly above average sometimes I last 15-20 minutes other times I only last like 10 pumps, her ex’s have all been massive and last for hours+ and I’m just not sure how I can even compete and please her sexually …

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I last for hours as well, nothing fun about that. That’s the reason I’m on this platform, I can’t get myself to climax because of my self criticism. I have trouble enjoying sex, yet I somehow keep kinda hard enough for sex. Also, girls generally don’t like it when sex lasts longer than 20 minutes, so be glad!

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I feel you mate I’m in a similar situation I guess you just have to accept with size there’s nothing you can do just work with what you’ve got she wouldn’t be into you if it was such a problem I think that anxiety is normal I think about it too

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2 things I’ve got to say about this.

  1. Even if your stroke game ain’t the best, it doesn’t matter if you can make up for it with your tongue. Women have a much easier time orgasming from oral sex than penetration. Go read “She Comes First” by Dr. Ian Kerner. Why do you think Lesbians have like multiple organs? It ain’t from scissoring, it’s from eating each other out.

  2. She’s not looking for those guys anymore. She doesn’t want to be with those guys anymore. She wants to be with YOU. She wants to have sex with YOU. The truth is between the two of you, it’s only in your head that you’re inadequate. At the end of the day, she probably doesn’t care and just wants to have fun with you

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Orgasms* not organs (but they got that too lol)