I’ve been using mojo, and overall it’s really helped in terms of mindfulness and being in my own body.
I’ve got no issues getting erect + climaxing when watching porn or reading erotic fiction, but I noticed that I really have to use my hand to get myself the erection and then on the brink of orgasm (in addition to erotic stimuli).
Without these, I can still get a bit horny with the libido topper audios, or a bit erect with my imagination, but nowhere near completely hard, and definitely not to orgasm state. How did you guys learn to be okay with not having an orgasm with every session? I feel like I can’t resist going all the way, even if I have to force it with my hand.
How did you guys learn to get pulled the the orgasm state with sensation + imagination?