I’m in my late 50s and have had delayed orgasm/ejaculation issues my whole life. I’ve only managed an orgasm while having penetrative sex with two casual partners (and then often with my husband). I’m trying Mojo because things are getting a bit worse as I’m getting older, which is really frustrating as my general sexual confidence is at its highest.
I’ve been using Mojo this week on the trial before subscribing, and completely unexpectedly yesterday I had my third orgasm while fucking a casual partner. It’s someone I’ve met once before and I feel relaxed with him, but Mojo played its part. During sex I felt the start of the familiar feeling of mental detachment from the physical act (flight?), and rising performance anxiety. This is common for me and when things start to go wrong. I focused on my breathing (mojo exercise one) and that helped me get past this in 6 or so breaths and, to my complete surprise, to having an orgasm whilst fucking.
I know I’ve made it sound very simple, and indeed it just worked. I can’t say for sure why I managed my third casual sex orgasm in 40 years but I do think the breathing exercise (and the lovely partner) helped. I’ve been dealing with this long enough to know there are no miracles, but this experience is giving me hope that I can learn some ways to improve my satisfaction with myself.