Can’t get erection during sex but can during masturbation

🍆 Erection issues
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I thought mojo was working because i made a better time masturbating at home and could get rock hard in no time with no porn and could do it after cumming everyday once or twice, i was on mojo for about two weeks I thought I was finally ready to find a lover.

I started seeing someone and she’s very nice and kind and we ended up trying to have sex but the problem for me wasn’t anxiety beforehand it was because I couldn’t get horny no matter what, I was not in the mood at all and it was as if my brain made up it’s mind that I wasn’t gonna get hard so I stayed soft the entire time, I got hard again later but I lost in completely in 15 seconds after I try to get a condom. I felt so embarrassed and disappointed that mojo didn’t work. I know a lot of people here are older and have wives and stable relationships so they can express their feelings and fight this with their wives to solve it but I have never had a girlfriend and I feel that because of this I can only have one night stands and no one would ever wait or commit time to me to help me fix this.

Im 20 years old and I know this isn’t ED but purely anxiety but the thing is I only get the anxiety after the failed sex and in the moment I never feel horny.

I desperately need motivation and guidance. Maybe I should keep using mojo but I realized that you can never know if it’s working unless you have a partner to constantly practice, so im very pessimistic and hopeless about this

Please share your thoughts because I really need advice and experience

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It’s all still apart of the process, so don’t be hard on yourself.

You’re already making a difference by using the app to try to understand the underlying factors of our problems. It certainly takes time, I’ve been using mojo for just over a month now so the process takes time, and works at different rates for different people.

Keep focusing on the mental reliance activities, I found that the meditations work well, which you can do whenever. They can also help you with other stresses such as work etc.

My main point is don’t give up, everyone on here have different reasons, and it is great that you are understanding the reason why you chose this app in the first place.

Keep at it! I hope you continue to make great progress!

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