Hope this app helps

26 yo and it’s finally taken me years to realize I have some trauma from a circumcision when I was 10. With my current GF and we’ve had some great sex the last few weeks however on other occasions where it’s more “planned” I struggle. My inner thoughts focus all day on this feeling of shame I have about being circumcised (so weird as I’ve had enough sex now to validate it). I then get in my head that I won’t perform or get up. I even tried Viagra (100mg) and it didn’t work. I think this shows though that it’s anxiety related and not a physical ED issue. I wake up with strong erections and I’ll get so many random ones when I’m with her but damn it sometimes when it comes down to the real deal he just abandons me. Hope this helps.

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Take advantage of those random moments when you are hard with her. I find planning the event with my wife leads to more performance anxiety. Viagra will work but if there are any doubts/fears about staying hard then all bets are off and nothing can be done to get and stay hard. It’s definitely anxiety - just enjoy any moment with her. Focus on her pleasure. She will be so excited if you touch her in the right way that she will return the favors and excite you in ways you never thought possible. Good luck!