After countless doctors appointments and blood tests to confirm it wasn’t a medical issue I figured it must be psychological. It’s my first proper time since a bad experience 5 years ago when I was a young teenager, I am super nervous and get heart racing and a dry mouth everytime we start foreplay, I can stay hard for head if I’m lying down and relaxed with some viagra but anything else even pleasuring her I go soft. It’s awful because she thinks it’s her fault when it’s so far from the truth, I’m so anxious and only 20, normally such a confident person but I don’t know what’s going on…
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Sorry man. How long have you been on here? If not long keep at it. It’s honestly not a short fix takes awhile and practice on here. I have commented on here before to others a cock ring was super helpful for me. Got a stretchy one with a vibrator for her but any could work. If you can get hard enough to get it on it will hold the blood and help to give you confidence. Practice with it by yourself for a bit so you are pretty confident you can use it for sex. Also let her know before you whip that out cause answering questions and explaining it could lead to questions and a conversation that could be mood killing. Also hopefully you are being honest and open about what’s going on and your working on yourself and hopefully get her on your team erection to do what she can to help. Are you pleasuring her at all during this process? Let us know and keep us updated we are all here for you! These chat groups have helped me tremendously to know I’m not alone
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Been using this app for the past few weeks to no real benefit to be honest. Just so nervey and it’s like every time it flops it just makes it harder for me to be confident even tho I’ve got so much reassurance from her knowing it’s okay if things go wrong. If I don’t get turned on as a I’m making out with her undressing her and touching her then I just resort to giving her oral or fingers till she finishes and I stay soft the whole time. It sucks
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