Iām 55, and have been in a mostly sexless relationship for almost 30 years, and a completely sexless one for several years. During this time, Iāve taken care of my sexual needs through porn and masturbation. I no longer get hard without stimulation, and was hoping that this app would help me have more spontaneous erections when Iām with my partner. I find that instead, I find a lot of these activities triggering, because they seem geared towards people who donāt struggle with an unwilling partner and lack of opportunity to practice. Are there other users in sexless marriages who have experienced positive change using this app? Iām curious what may have helped.
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Iām in a sexless (open) marriage and have decided on no extra-marital stuff too for a while as I work on my relationship with myself.
Once that pressure had gone, and the decision made that sex aināt going to happen for me for at least a while, Iāve got a lot from the app. I use video porn really rarely now, orgasms and ejac are stronger and more enjoyable. I love the directed masturbation audios and the ebb-and-flow work makes eventual orgasm really intense.
In short, I am doing this for me - not for sex and that shift has made all the difference. Good luck 
I canāt say much about this app, since I started just started it, but I have a similar critique. If you are with a partner I would try practicing āsensate focusā to start with. It is a well established technique and I wonder why they do not have anything related to that in the app.
Also, I find that avoiding porn increases attraction to my partner. This is also a point that is not explored sufficiently in this app I feelā¦
Sensate focus can be found in the explore tab.
Once in explore swipe to find a bunch of stuff!!
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