My girlfriend didn’t seem to care about receiving oral sex and kind of dismissed my intent before. The erection issue was really causing a strain. I decided to go down on her and give her the best I could and she said no man ever made her feel that and she doesn’t need my penis any longer (jokingly but honest) and it complete took away my anxiety and allow me to feel stronger erections while being close with her. I think this will be my path out of my ED.
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It’s a tried and tested routine, everyone’s happy 
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Agreed. Read a book called “she comes first” by Ian Kerner. Will bring up your game
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Same here!!!
I absolutely love going to down on women.
X wife didn’t like it-self conscious…
Current gf never had anyone go down that liked it or knew what he was doing. So she was skeptical…..
She now really enjoys my tongue and fingers.
The fact that I don’t need a hardon to completely satisfy her. She also says if we do have intercourse- it’s literally bonus!! This gives me confidence!
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I love a woman who gives me oral because she wants to not because she thinks I want her to want to… I give oral for my pleasure, her pleasure is a side effect…
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Oh my god, as her little flower opens up… she realizes I mean it when I lightheartedly say "Smooth and Bald is the best. I eat at that restaurant, cleanliness is essential. Wanna be as close to extacy as humanly possible? Keep it clean and place lips here…
I had some issues at the start of my current relationship because of my own self consciousness and never being able to really get a girl off. With just one finger I’ve been able to make my gf cum multiple times which really relieves me knowing I won’t always need to use my penis to please her. I’ve also found slowing down foreplay really helps with my erection. Like a good 10-20 minutes of kissing lips, neck, nipples instead of just jumping immediately to stuff with her vagina keeps me in the mood longer.
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Well what if I try but she seems uninterested and possibly even like she got herself with her toy instead of…
She told me just fingers doesn’t do much difference than a toy. But using it together work your thong end exploring what gives her different sensations def causes a hormonal response in her which gives next level pleasure.
Great book recommendation!
I suggest checking out OMG Yes! It opened my eyes to several things.
I think it’s $75 1 time charge for lifetime access.
It’s women explaining what they like. - told by women for the benefit of other women.
Iv been single 7 years not had sex for ages