I feel like my erection issues may just be due to the fact my wife is not being freaky enough for me anymore. In the beginning of our relationship I was able to have certain fantasies with her about different scenarios of sex. For example getting her to suck my dick while driving at night, doggystyle sex in our living room overlooking street traffic below, watching a mimicking porn videos. But after a while she decided she did not like that anymore and she said she was feeling like a prostitute and that she wanted more romantic style sex. I have been trying to slow things down and try her new desires because I love her but I have now developed ED and now we hardly do anything other than oral on eachother once in a while. My sex desires are plummeting. It’s really taking a toll on the both of us even after explaining this. She still feels like an object and I always tell her it’s just really fun sex with her. Has anyone gone through this?
Maybe speak candidly with your wife and see if there’s a compromise that can be made or some way you can meet in the middle.
It is a marriage after all so sharing your thoughts and feelings openly and honestly should be a good place to start,