Recently found myself having a hard time getting and maintaining an erection.
Short backstory - Wife and I agreed to checking out the Swing LS to spice things up. After a few slow weeks, she suggested allowing some solo play. I agreed somewhat reluctantly. She managed to find a partner pretty quickly. I know who it is and what they have is just about sex. For the first couple times, the “reclaiming” thing turned me on amd things worked fine. Recently she told me that she feels lost and without purpose and is planning to be away for a few days for a solo trip to try and “find herself” again. The last couple times we have had sex, I have hard a tough time maintaining an election. Even masturbation has been difficult, because I keep getting in my head that her path is taking her away from wanting to be with me. We’re 16yrs married.
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That’s rough man I hope things turn out ok
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I suggest you also try to “find yourself” and engage in solo play yourself. You have a free ticket so use it. One-sided open relationships must be one of the most miserable things there are, so it is completely understandable that you have erection problems. You simply can not compete for your wife against the thrill of a new partner, so it is mostly inevitable that things like this happen…