I’m back in a physical and sexual relationship after a few years of being apart but still living together, and my wife has been with another man the last year and is now back with me, but now its all i think about and being able to preform is next to impossible! I can’t seem to get out of my own head and its killing my inner self and making it impossible to do the deed!
The opposite for me. We recently decided she should spend a couple of nights with her ex - and it has really spiced up our sex life. But I realise not an option for many couples.
Good luck relaxing back into your relationship