Anyone have the issue with getting hard with their partner, but when your alone masturbating you have no problem getting hard. This seems to be my biggest issue.
Yes, that’s why I thought I would try Mojo. It just goes round in circles where I worry about it now and that pretty much guarantees I struggle to get hard because I am too stressed and can’t get in the mood. This also depends on the partner because if she is ok with it works with you then it’s fine, if she rolls her eyes and voices her frustration then it’s never going to happen.
2 Likes
Yes, I’m in the same situation, usually happens with a new partner. Been seeing new girlfriend for a few months, finally planned a day and I just couldn’t show up. I was at least able to take care of her, but just could feel myself deflate and there were no negative thoughts in my head, just a lot of little things took me out of the moment in my head, “whew it’s getting hot in here, I’m getting really thirsty, this is tiring me out” so I’m hoping I can try and get back in the moment next time we try
2 Likes
I think this happens with a lot of us….for some reason our minds aren’t getting turned on.
It’s not we’re SUPER horny and can’t get hard…it’s that we’re not being aroused for whatever reason in the moment.
We’ve all had that feeling “I HAVE to wank” “I need to get a load off”…..but for some reason it doesn’t happen with a partner. It’s almost like a numbness
2 Likes