Any other gay men with erection issues and low sex drive?
Got divorced 2 years ago can’t seem to get back on the saddle… Not getting hard as I used too…
Any other gay men with erection issues and low sex drive?
Got divorced 2 years ago can’t seem to get back on the saddle… Not getting hard as I used too…
Right there with you! I think there’s even more pressure among gay men to always be up for it and able to go for ages, which just adds anxiety and makes it all the more difficult to maintain a healthy relationship with sex. Hopefully some of what’s on this app is helpful for you. I’ve only been at it a week and there’s a long way to go, but I’m already noticing the positive changes in how I approach sex with my husband and how I’m able to me more present.
I’m with ya! Just started getting into an intimate relationship with someone for the first time in 5+ years, and though I’m not the one topping I feel like I get so in my head if I’m not hard. I also have been feeling self conscious cause they have voiced that they too are experiencing low libido at the moment. Conversations between us are happening very soon about it all. Wanting to be so supportive but I also am wanting to be sexual with them again. I miss that type of intimacy. I know it all takes time.
Both issues in my case. Came out of a 16 year relationship and difficult to get back into it. Confidence and fear of failure etc.