I’ve been having issues with my long term partner for some time. We used to have a healthy sex life and I had no issues in getting “ready”. However, since August I have not been able to get fully erect. We have tried to be intimate but I have admittedly had some personal issues which has led to me not being able to get erect. I feel in the mood and I have pleasured my partner with my tongue but she feels there’s something wrong because I of this. Has any body else had a lufe event that has made you stressed and not be able to perform
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yes 100 % I confessed to my wife that I made out with her best friend 11 years ago and also , on top of that super stress about buying my mothers lake property ( three seasonal rentals ) that need a ton of work , also managing my collision shop and still have four kids at home . I went soft on my wife a few months back and have been in my head since . The good newa is I am making progress and have been able to have normal sex with wife recently with a little help from viarga .
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Life stress can definitely mess with sex. It really doesn’t help that women aren’t taught anything about men and sex just like we aren’t. Everyone assumes we are erection robots and it’s not fair.
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I think that is exactly why a lot of us are here. Sex with my wife has always been my escape from whatever crap has been going on in my life. But being a 41 year old man that has shoved down everything deep inside and put on a happy face for the family and co workers and subordinates. It finally spilled out to psychological ED. Being needing to go to therapy for a long time but this started in august for me as well and I got on this app a few weeks ago. It’s helpingish with ED but think life problems are the bigger issue and I’m starting therapy on Nov 18th. Didn’t know how fast a sometimes limp dick could get me to finally go to therapy lol. Good man!
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