Hey I feel embarrassed about this but getting an erection for me isn’t the problem I’m having issues maintaining it. I’m not sure why it suddenly goes as I’m about to have sex. If anyone has any tips or had a similar situation and can help I’d greatly appreciate it
Yeah ive had and am
Having similar at the moment
Same for me. I feel like there are roughly two groups of people. Ones that have difficulties getting it up, but if they do, it stays, and us, we can usually get it up at some point, but it goes away easily.
Same principles apply though. For me there are either negative thoughts that make me loose it or I am not horny enough so that an erection requires constant stimulation and is generally weak (this usually suffices for masturbation but not for sex).
For me it has gotten much better since I have been using the app. Kegels in particular help a lot.
I’m a mix, but this also happens to me. My wife is very supportive, but I still find this cause me anxiety which makes it worse. We have spiced things up recently, which worked for us. But I’m not saying it would work for every couple