Fucking a masturbator instead of wanking

For anyone with anxiety around sex and/or problems due to porn and death grip, I can really recommend buying a masturbator and fucking that thing.

I bought one and fuck it whilst visualising that I’m fucking my gf when I’m not with her. It feels much more realistic than wanking, as I’m thrusting and concentrating on the visualisation and the sensations in my penis.

I already feel more confident about fucking my gf, and feel like I can get rid of this death grip issue, so I can tune in to the sensations I feel when she is pleasuring me. I find it difficult to reach my climax when I’m inside my gf, but since I’ve been able to come inside the masturbator while thrusting and thinking of her, I’m confident that I can do it with her as well. I’ll see my gf this weekend. Hoping that I can already enjoy some results.

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I’m just genuinely interested to try this and would love to hear of anyone’s success stories with fucking a flesh light (:joy:). Do you use lube with the flesh light?

I don’t use the fleshlight. I got one of those things that has the ass and pussy that you can lie flat on your bed and just hump it lol! I kind of had to get over the sad idea of a grown man humping a piece of silicon, but as I said, it feels better than wanking, solves the death grip issue, and it’s more of a simulation of the real thing, so I suppose it can bring down anxiety when fucking a real woman. Highly recommended.

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Oh yeah and you definitely need lube, and you need to clean it obviously.

Bet bro, willing to try it😂 and you just use fantasy right?

Any one in particular you’d recommend?:rofl:

Any that you’d recommend ?