I have been having trouble with having sex with my partner I believe due to being scared that I won’t perform.
I think I might have took a step forward as I didn’t watch porn to climax. In other terms I really only fantasized from the time we did have sex. When the only time I used to climax was to watching porn.
I thought of how great the sensation felt and positive reinforcement from my person in my brain and i ended up performing!
Would you say this is a positive step forward? I know it’s still not sex, but I feel like this is helping with my confidence!
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Yes, definitely, no porn, just the thought of your partner. I do that too when we’re not together sometimes on some weekdays and it really helps.
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Not sure where you are at on thoughts of the audios but I like those and then i definitely visualize my wife. It’s making those positive connections in your mind. It’s the moans and wet sound effects that really turn me on. So since starting this app and discovering my like of the audios once her moans start and wet sounds then I’m pretty good to go. Even if I loose my erection for a few I tell myself through her moans and sounds I can get it back. I think through visual porn my wife is gorgeous but she will never be a 20 year old DD Latina, but she can moan and tell me to fuck her harder and deeper with wet slapping sounds. It’s working for me . Hope that helps you and good lick
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