Why am I struggling to get an erection with a girl I’m seeing, but going with a prostitute or masturbating I get good and decent erections, I don’t think my problem is physical at this point, I thought it was the smoking but at this point I don’t believe so
Sounds like you are caring to much about the interaction, with porn or a sex worker. You don’t give a Fk, as there is no emotional investment.
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Same here. Not visiting sexual workers, but I know I can get an erection, but with my wife I struggle. Think too much not to fail her and if she will be happy and fine.
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Sounds like you’re worried about how you will perform for the woman you care about. You’re so concerned about her pleasure that you mentally self-sabotage by overthinking your duty to perform. I’m in the same boat.
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