Feeling in my head

I just started seeing a woman about two months ago, and guys… I’ve never had this much sex in my life. We can’t get off of each other. I’ve dealt with performance anxiety in the past and thought that I had kicked it.

Last night we went three rounds and everything was incredible. This morning, when we woke up, we went at it again. We were going for a while, but then it happened. I went down.

Suddenly all this doubt and anxiety and insecurity flooded my mind. “Oh no, you’re not going to get back up. You fucked this up. She’s going to lose interest in you.” The whole nine.

I guess I’m just venting. Maybe looking for some encouragement. I thought I was over this.

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You’re being very hard on yourself (or your inner critic is). No one is on 100% all of the time, no need to let one minor bump get in the way of all the success you’ve had. It’s just part of the process.

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