Hey guys. I haven’t been on here in a while. I’ve been doing so well that I actually stopped using mojo for that past month or so. But today I’m all in my head.
My GF and I have been moving forward with our relationship. She moved in last month and we’ve been having an insane amount of sex. Like 2-3 times a day usually. I haven’t even been thinking about being anxious. For the past two months Ive pretty much been able to get hard on demand.
This morning, for some reason, I woke up really in my head and couldn’t keep an erection even though I was really horny. She was understanding and went to work, but I’ve just been feeling low and discouraged all day.
I looked at porn a little later, something I don’t usually do, and had no problem getting it up then, but I’m still feeling anxious about my ability to perform. I’m trying to remind myself that I’m still worthwhile, and that I’ve been through this before and have always come out of it. Just feeling low.
Any encouragement would be welcome.
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Try simmering the rest of the day.
Think of how great sex has been lately. Think of her pretty legs wrapped around you. Think of how good you both feel in the moment! What scent she’s wearing or what she tastes like. Send her a playful text like can’t wait to see you tonight!!
Focus on good stuff. Not the negatives in the past or this morning.
You got this brother!! 
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Having a similar sort of day. Your not alone. Definitely remind yourself of the positives to counter the negatives. Cancel them out. Realine that mindset. You’ve got this.
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I relapsed a couple times where I was doing great then I started losing my erection again. Yeah I did the same thing, just start doing more on mojo. it took a couple weeks to get out of it but overall I’ve had longer periods of time where I had almost no performance issue.
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I am same like you for months i had no issues but i do have anxiety now that is making me cum earlier. I got this and you got this too bro
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Bro you’ve got this!
I’ve had this before and guess what…it was fine the next night!
Hi. I think emotions play a big part and it’s something not often mentioned when discussing ED. You say you’ve moved in with your girlfriend. That’s a big step, have you discussed your feelings for each other. It could be you are actually unsure where the relationship is going and neither of you wants to be the first to say what they really want. I find when I’m unsure how my partner feels about me or how serious the relationship is that it affects my ability to get hard. Does anyone else feel the same?
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