I’m 19, and i’ve been sexually active for about 4 years. I have had the same problem with every girl I have ever hooked up with. My dick doesn’t get hard or if it does it doesn’t stay hard. I don’t consider myself self conscious or anxious and I don’t know what started this problem. I dated a girl for 2 years and was extremely comfortable with her, yet my problem persisted. It is extremely frustrating to be 19 and have erection problems. My biggest fear should be orgasming too quick but instead it’s not orgasming at all. In the 4 years i’ve been sexually active I have not orgasmed once from sex. It is very difficult to try and explain to a girl why my dick went limp out of no where. I tell them it’s not their fault, and they either believe me and think i’m weird for having erection problems at 19, or they think i’m lying and get self conscious. After 4 years of this problem it is extremely mentally draining. Sex is supposed to be a great thing and in my head all I can think about it “damn i really hope my dick stays hard long enough so she enjoys it”. It honestly makes sex feel like a chore. Feels like i’m working out and constantly in fear of my dick going limp. I understand that fear is what causes my problem but I don’t know how to fix it. People have said “well just don’t think like that, you know it’s just all in your head” which honestly just doesn’t fucking change anything. It’s like trying to convince yourself you can fly. You can say in your head “yes I can fly if I try hard enough” but there’s a voice in the back of your mind saying “no the fuck you cant”. It feels like I have that voice in the back of my head. I do not know what to do.
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I had the same problems. With ed at 20 I was like what the fuck, my dick should be rock hard. I found carnivore diet helped me a LOT with my errections. Do some research into it but within a few days my sexual confidence was up. I’d try that along with continuing on this app if I were you 
Thanks for sharing brother. I’m throwing myself into the app and the courses and really focussing on my diet and health.
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I’m 20 and I’ve also been having these issues since I was 19. You’re not alone brother. Best thing we can do is continue going on this app consistently and eventually we will be able to tame our subconscious which is not something you can do overnight