Hi Lads, met this amazing woman and unfortunately, the erection dies down when we are about to do it and I’m about to wear a condom. Not sure if the condom is too thick, cold or just plain anxiety, most likely the latter. Afterwards, it is hard to get it up even if I remove the condom. Anyone else with this experience and can share your journey? Thanks!
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I had this experience a lot. Now when I know we are going to have sex I unwrap the condom and pop it ready next to my pillow a few minutes before we start so that I know it’s right there.
I also experimented with a lot of condoms to find ones that feel best and settled on Lelo Hex which I can’t recommend highly enough
did it ever get resolved once you found which condom to use and prepping beforehand? Comforting to know that my gutfeel that the condom fit or type might have some effect and thanks for the tip of opening it beforehand.
How did you deal with the nerves/anxiety tho? Did it cause you to overthink knowing the condom pack is now open and should be put on in a few minutes?
Yeah using the thinner condoms helped, as did opening them.
But now I’m not wearing condoms and I’m finding I struggle to stay hard more often than before, which is why I joined Mojo. Hoping for progress.