Erection Issues (22 year old straight male)

I joined Mojo two years ago because I was having erection issues. My bloodwork showed low testosterone levels, which was surprising since I’m 22, healthy, don’t eat processed food, rarely drink, and don’t smoke. After a year of trying to raise my testosterone naturally, I started taking Clomid from my doctor. This medication helps increase testosterone by signaling the brain to produce more, without shutting down natural production like TRT does.

After three months on Clomid, I felt more energetic, my gym strength improved, and my libido skyrocketed. But despite these changes, I still struggle with performance, and getting close with a girl terrifies me because I feel like I won’t be able to perform given so many bad experiences. This has ruined 3 potential relationships for me now. This issue has affected me so much mentally that I now struggle to get aroused even on my own. I feel at an all-time low, as if this basic human need is completely out of reach.

I’m not sure what I hoped to gain from posting this, but I needed to get it off my chest—it’s been weighing on me for months.

Cutting out porn and masturbation is another great boost worth trying if you’re not already. Complete detox.
My man things get better😊

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It sounds as though you have been trying so hard to get things sorted. Fantastic news you have got your levels back up to a range where you feel so much better! I think you just need to take things slowly, knowing that the anxiety is in your head. Practice mindful masturbating, noticing thoughts, using an erotic bank and gaining confidence with Waxing & Waning by yourself. Then when you are ready, take your time, make some choices that gives you a chance of feeling relaxed enough to get into the touching and letting yourself get aroused. You’ve done so well, this is just the next part of getting your Mojo back! : )

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