I’ve been with my new girl for a month now , everytime we try to have sex I end up soft or if I manage to stay hard long enough from moving from foreplay to inter course really quickly I end up finishing insanely quick I feel embarrassed and annoyed about it but it keep happening everytime . If I try going slow and really spending time in the foreplay I just end up soft as I think my mind starts to wonder and worry about if I’ll be hard or if I’m going soft , or even if she’s actually enjoying what’s going in the moment. I need some advice , I think maybe watching porn almost daily hasn’t helped at all but Im in the process of quitting that out . Has anyone got any tips or any suggestions to do before sex or during ? Or anything I could suggest to her that could help either she is open to help
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