I’ve recently began hooking up with someone new after months of no action, and for the first time I struggle to get an erection in bed. Every time I have been able to get hard, but it has been after a lot of effort, and if I don’t almost immediately penetrate, I go soft. I have had PE issues for the last year or so as well, so if I am able to get hard with her, I finish within 30 seconds. Anyone else have a similar problem? I am only 18 but I am trying to quit porn and masturbating as a whole as I feel that when I take breaks it helps both issues.
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Coming off a long dry spell can make that happen,…definitely lay off the porn. If you have a girl that youre with on a regular basis don’t jerk off. Save it for being with her. If that makes you cum quick when you’re with her be open about it. Round two will last longer.
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Ive been with this gir lfor 7 months now and my performance has been all over the place. And after more difficult times ive noticed i cum quicker because i focus just on that to maybe avoid the issue of getting soft. recently ive tried something new because of my issue ive been pretty much only focusing on myself and how everything feels to me. But making it about her made everything better, maybe it could help you. focus on her pleasure