I finally got back into having sex with a new girl after years of no action. We started with my dick hard, but it started going soft as I was going. I took a break, gave her oral, got hard enough again to go back at it and finished. But it still felt like I was trying to beat the clock.
I don’t think it was a confidence issue, I’ve been really good there. Just having problems staying hard for long. But I feel like I can do that during long jerk off sessions (I use a toy to avoid death grip).
Any good tips on keeping it hard longer?
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Just here to say, that’s normal man, men aren’t machines, and your dick isn’t always going to stay rock hard all the time for as long as you think it should. That ebb and flow is natural, and I think you’re putting pressure on yourself and your dick to be some ideal that we’re all conditioned to beleive we should be from porn. I think you played it perfectly in the moment, switched up the activity, continued having great sex that both of you were enjoying, and still got to finish when the erection came back. I don’t think you need to worry about improving on anything there. As long as you both had fun, felt connected, and both felt pleasure, then you had great sex. Simple as.
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