Easily Distracted During the Deed

Title. I’m easily distracted during sex, and it takes us both out of the act, and naturally causes me to go limp. It just feels really awkward to not say anything, but dirty talk feels equally awkward. Lose/lose scenario either way and when I try to lock in, I just feel even sillier.

Writing it out I suspect a self-esteem issue is probably at the root but doesn’t explain why ny attention just wanders.

Man, go to Explore → Meditations.

You will find an answer there. Meditate from the list 3 at least a day

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