I don’t have a major problem getting an erection. I am in my head a lot and I’m anxious, yes, especially when the person matters to me. But the biggest difference I feel is that my erections are not strong enough and when I’m having sex I have problems getting to climax. When I do climax, it doesn’t feel as strong either as it was five years ago. This change hasn’t been from one day to the other but gradual. I feel pretty lost and I don’t know what might be able to help and what is this really.
Any thoughts?
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I’m here with the exact same issue. I think it’s just a case of getting in your head and worrying about it too much. I have no issues at the start or the 1st 10 minutes but when I start to get a bit distracted and think about how I’ve had these issues before I push myself to finish and don’t enjoy it as much and occasionally just don’t finish at all.
This is less of an issue with people I’m comfortable around and more of an issue when I’m worried about finishing or not so can only assume (at least for me) it’s a mostly mental thing, hope you can relate and this helps!
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