I got on this app because it has been a long while of dealing with issues with erections. Been with my fiance for 8 years now, I know down deep inside that she is the “one”. However, every time we try and have sex i will get so worked up and ill lose it. Or I can’t always get her there. It’s been over a month since I have tried to have sex and I know she’s getting tired of it so here I am. Right now my biggest question is why is my libido so freaking low. Why don’t I want it. I don’t know what happened to me but somewhere along the line sex became less sought after. My testosterone levels are in the normal range. Sometimes at the low end of normal range.
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I think the anxiety related to the ED is Probabaly at least part of the reason for not wanting to engage in sex. Keep up with the exercises here especially the mental ones that get at the psychology behind performance anxiety. Also as much as your able to, have some open convos with your partner and let her know that you are trying your best at working through this. Ask your doc about cialis or viagra. Don’t expect results overnight but give yourself the time and do the work to calm your mind a bit and allow the body to catch up. Best of luck!
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Sounds like me. Scared to start something that will likely disappoint both of you…… 
This sounds like you are dealing with issues that are actually very common. Once you start getting into your head it can ‘spoil’ everything. Mojo will help you understand what is going on and how to get back into your body and get the enjoyment and confidence back. If you can communicate with your partner about things that is also super helpful. Well done for starting to look at this! : )
For me it was the pressure to perform and not finish too quickly, which created the anxiety, which triggered fight or flight and a quick finish regularly. I was completely in my head and had no idea until I got mojo. If you think this is your issue too, I recommend trying the program and also allowing yourself to enjoy and feel the sensations without putting expectations on it. If it happens great, if not that’s fine too. Good luck!