Do you ever compare yourself, partners, or the sex you have to porn?

Sometimes. I see How easy it is for people in porn to get hard and get going and i Think, why cant i always do that. I also feel like there is pressure for me to go on for a Long time and have a Big and hard penis

I donā€™t compare what we do to porn but porn has introduced a lot of different desires for additional stimulation over missionary.

My issue with porn (I think) has made me self-conscious about my body and that Iā€™m only turned on by hot muscle-hunks with practically no fat. I know this is unrealistic, but it is compounded by the fact that I was extremely fit not too long ago and part of me wonders if I was turned on by my own body. Then health issues came into the picture and I can no longer exercise the way I used to. IDK. Now I am way more comfortable getting off solo watching porn, and this frustrates me and I am unable to satisfy my husband. But having said all that, mojo seems to be making a huge difference rewiring how I think.

I think it could be there in the back of my mind

No I donā€™t.
Gay sex is only trough anal sex or so.
Everything else is foreplay, real gay sex goal is anal penetration.

Yes I compare myself to the erection size and length of sex creating this idea that sex must last long and you must be hard the entire time.

Porn has made me self conscious on my penis shape. It has also made me see sex in a warped reality

Not really

Porn teaches false things like to have an erection right away and maintain it the entire duration of sex. That most of the positions are normal and to be expected of women without asking if they have boundaries. To have to rely on a very fixed stimulation as far as grip, pressure & visual stimuli. If that is absent in the bedroom then the brain cannot function as itā€™s supposed to in a real sexual situation.

I think of comparing it subconsciously but I donā€™t see any expectations

Yes, I do. Itā€™s made me think that only in certain sexual situations I can be fully aroused and not anxious

Porn has distorted my view on my penis. I think itā€™s not big enough because everyone else on these sites has absolute monsters. It makes me more nervous to have sex in case she expects that as well.

Yes all the time. If my partner doesnā€™t look like a porn star Iā€™m rarely turned on. It has given me an unrealistic expectation of women and how they should look.

i feel that I should look and perform like a porn star.
I feel bad that Iā€™m not attracting women that are as hot as in porn
despite not having a small penis, Iā€™m anxious about the size of my penis. It feels useless compared to the actorsā€™

I have never compared myself to porn.

Porn made me feel like my penis wasnā€™t big enough and that i would need to come on

I used to. I relied on porn to get aroused for the majority of my life, I didnā€™t date often or at all and would only try to hook up with women I met out at the bar when the opportunity presented itself as a form of stress relief and to feel normal bc my 90% of my friends men and women had sex frequently and I envied them. And wanted those types of connections and release in my life as well. Recently I had accepted that I might be demisexual or asexual or something in between and that I should mentally accept that it might not be in the cards for me.then I met a woman who was into me and we could relate about loss and trauma and self sacrifice and even an unhealthy amount of putting other before ourselves. We are both care givers and both lost a grandparent. She came into my life and accepted me as a was told me I wasnā€™t broken and was willing to work through these issues with me and we arenā€™t even dating (hopefully one day though) she has lessened the intimidating nature of this issue, she reminds me im mot broken and she incourages me to talk to her about all the details behind this therapy and these exercises wether I see success or not. I know I am lucky to have someone like her in my life and wish for everyone else here to have success in these courses and the luck to find someone who cares for you like she does for me

When I watch porn I feel more comfortable because I am by myself and I donā€™t have tonworry about my partner is having a good time or is having pleasure. Also I know what things I like and what donā€™t so I donā€™t have erection issues or have to worry about wierd sensations.

I donā€™t compare myself so much with porn because growing up my parents always taught me porn was a fantasy and everything I see there is not the real world but porn make me have some expectations that sex is always very hardcore so my first times having sex was not like that and that kinda make me a little uninterested in sex.

I donā€™t compare myself with porn because growing up my parents always told that porn was a fantasy and everything I saw in porn is not real and not how happens in real life. However I did have some expectations when I started to have sex because I was expecting sex to be hardcore and full of emotions and sensationā€¦it did not fulfill my expectations and I kinda became I little disappointed at first.

I constantly think why arenā€™t I hard like them. And I need to do my best to please any girl like they are in pornos. However even though Iā€™m aware real life sex isnā€™t like this Iā€™m sure it affects me on some level