I always watch deepthroat porn and this has caused a strong desire for that in the bedroom with my partner and I often prefer this to sex.
That all partners should be amazing in bed
Erections should be hard rock always and last a lot of time
Yes I do compare sometimes. It has taught me to expect to be fully hard the whole time and to last long.
See, I don’t really think it has… If anything, however, it has given me a sense that my partner should expect more from me as an individual and I think this has been largely the causal agent of my E.D. It has also lent itself to some sex myths which over the course of the days, and months, have lead me to look at sex shops for a solution in that indirect manner, I guess you could say that I have predisposed myself to be negatively influenced by porn.
I think my main issue is more to do with a dependence on specific, physical stimuli that is easier to pull off with porn, rather than the porn itself (i.e., easier to get erect with friction on my penis)
I did worry to start with as it’s the only sex education I really had and lost my virginity really late. It made me expect to be hard all the time and be in charge. I know its a fantasy but if you have no experience sometimes that’s all you can go on - expectations. I don’t compare myself anymore and learning to enjoy sex
I don’t really do this. Although I think I might have picked up some expectations about sex from porn for example that it should last 30 mins or longer and that you should be hard most of the time and get hard instantly
Yes. Watching makes me believe I have a small, inadequate dick and that I have no hope of ever fully satisfying a woman. It also makes it seem like women should act a certain way in the bedroom; being vocal, screaming in pleasure, etc
Occasionally
Porn has made me believe that the duration of sec has to be at least 15 minutes long (which is completely unrealistic)
I don’t. I don’t think porn has given me any expectations, but since finding my fetish I do rely on it most of the time (either watching, reading, or imagining it) to masturbate.
Following adult accounts on Twitter makes me feel like everyone is having more sex than me - and that they all have bigger, harder dicks than me. Of course I realize that these are extreme cases: People who are trying to make a living off creating a constant stream of pornographic content. While I enjoy the individual videos, the whole barrage of it makes me feel distant from sex.
It has lead me to believe that my partner has to be in constant excitement or else Im failing.
porn taught me sex should be amazing the whole way through
Recently I came to a realisation that when I am watching porn my attention is drawn away from my body / myself. When I masturbate without it, it’s become difficult get hard without picturing a scenario in my head, but it has little to do with how I physically feel the pleasure.
Penis size and cumshots in porn are bigger than mine. I am gay and so know a lot of other gay men use porn, so feel that I don’t measure up and that my partners are probably wishing I was bigger and could shoot cum across the room.
Porn has made me rely on visual sensation. Making me struggle with sensation of touch
That you should be fully erect always during intercourse. Intense connection through out intercourse. It’s important to have a big penis. Men should be in control always during intercourse. If I’m not in the dominant position I start worrying I’ll lose my erection.
It’s trained new to be aroused by fake-looking bimbos instead of normal looking women. It’s trained new to be turned on by exaggerated visuals and sounds and seated masturbation instead of the bodily contact of another flesh and blood human in bed. I feel so much more present when watching porn than I do with a partner.