Do you ever compare yourself, partners, or the sex you have to porn?

I always watch deepthroat porn and this has caused a strong desire for that in the bedroom with my partner and I often prefer this to sex.

That all partners should be amazing in bed

Erections should be hard rock always and last a lot of time

Yes I do compare sometimes. It has taught me to expect to be fully hard the whole time and to last long.

See, I don’t really think it has… If anything, however, it has given me a sense that my partner should expect more from me as an individual and I think this has been largely the causal agent of my E.D. It has also lent itself to some sex myths which over the course of the days, and months, have lead me to look at sex shops for a solution in that indirect manner, I guess you could say that I have predisposed myself to be negatively influenced by porn.

I think my main issue is more to do with a dependence on specific, physical stimuli that is easier to pull off with porn, rather than the porn itself (i.e., easier to get erect with friction on my penis)

I did worry to start with as it’s the only sex education I really had and lost my virginity really late. It made me expect to be hard all the time and be in charge. I know its a fantasy but if you have no experience sometimes that’s all you can go on - expectations. I don’t compare myself anymore and learning to enjoy sex

I don’t really do this. Although I think I might have picked up some expectations about sex from porn for example that it should last 30 mins or longer and that you should be hard most of the time and get hard instantly

Yes. Watching makes me believe I have a small, inadequate dick and that I have no hope of ever fully satisfying a woman. It also makes it seem like women should act a certain way in the bedroom; being vocal, screaming in pleasure, etc