To be fast not to ejaculate but give the partner the best experience possible.
Porn has taught me that if the current situation isn’t stimulating me enough I can just swap it for something different. This doesn’t work in real life.
Porn has taught me to focus on the visual side of sex and that I need to be seeing the partner kind of perform for me in a way.
No I wouldn’t say I compare
Yes, I do. Especially relating to my penis, its size, and its erectile performance. I often wish I had a “porn dick” that can be hard and stay hard for eternity allowing for seamless engagement with penetrative sex. I cannot do that and watching porn reminds me of it. I often feel excited and sad at the same time while watching it.
I deff feel like my dick should be ready at all times, and the 30 minutes or less hit me. Sex can be quick as long as the partners are please but I feel like I need to last long at all times and thats deff something that gets to me
Never compared my performance to porn but I do feel it has warped my view on what a healthy relationship with sex should be like because I didn’t get any sort of sex education when I was younger, I just figured it out as I went along for better or worse. Sometimes I do also feel like sex should be a certain way and have a particular “rhythm” to it.
When I watch porn I kind of feel nothing. I have been doing it for awhile so I feel somewhat numb to it. But, it is comfortable, and enjoyable.
It should last a long time, many positions, and I should have a ton of cum at the end.
I get concerned because when I have partnered sex all I can fantasize about or visualize is ejaculating or seeing my cum on my partner. I have a fixation on my orgasm (end result) and then immediately get there at the start of sex. Then I worry that I am upsetting my partner. It’s a cycle. Though part of me feels it is also a healthy “kink”. I gave up porn for a month and during my masturbation exercises I have heavy visuals of my partner and her body. I really want to fulfill my fantasies of orgasming on different parts of her body that I find erotic and I know she would be open to it, I just need to stop being so one sided in my visuals and focus on relaxing and having a good time with her.
Yes, Oral sex.
No. I don’t have any expectations from porn
The way I use porn is to pick a woman I like the look of using the thumbnail of a video. I think this makes me less receptive to a range of body types. When I get a woman naked, I can often be surprised with how part of her looks and this distracts me because it is not like I am used to viewing with porn.
I will then skip straight to the penetrative sex in the video. I think this has dampened the pleasure and excitement I get from foreplay and the build up.
I think I am overly focused on visual stimulation as a result of how I consume porn too. Trying to solve that with help on mojo
I like the amateur stuff
Yes, especially in my teen years. I was heavy set, I figured I needed to be ripped. I was nervous my penis wasn’t big enough, I was nervous I wasn’t able to do what was done in the films
Definitely. My girlfriend has dated mainly black guys and being a former porn addict, BBC porn was all over the place for me.
All I can think about is her getting abused and treated like an animal like how the pornstars are in BBC porn. It actually turns me on but at the same time makes me feel inadequate since I’m the furthest thing from a big black guy.
I feel like I want certain things done to me - not even anything radical - but don’t want to be pushy or ask for something the other person doesn’t want. I then worry about getting hard without the stimulation of receiving the things I think I want - which I’m worried I only want because I’ve seen it in porn.
yes i do compare , and the expectations it taught me are pretty much everything you said
I used to, but not anymore. Porn has put the expectation that I have to last a long time, and stay hard all the time.
Porn is just straight hard-core sex. No erection problems. No premature cum. Big cum loads.
Stamina, macho. I prefer amateur porn as people look more realistic maybe and I can relate better.