My girlfriend has openly discussed things she use to do in the bedroom with her ex boyfriend. I am more conservative and like to keep my past experiences to myself. No right or wrong, we are just different in that regard.
Anyway, for ages this put a lot of pressure on me. It made me feel like I had to do certain things that she had done before even if it’s not something I enjoy. I also felt a massive amount of pressure to satisfy her as much as her ex did. This pressure certainly didn’t help my ED. Has anyone else had a similar experience?
Just to be clear, my GF is a very loving and supportive partner and she certainly never meant to make me feel bad. All the pressure and worry I was feeling came purely from myself, not from her.