I’ve just started my mojo journey. So far it’s helped me a lot to maintain an erection.
I feel like I haven’t been able to cum for a couple of months through sex or masturbation. Any tips to help someone through dead hand syndrome?
I’m getting worried and panicky, because I’ve found someone amazing. I’m worried this will be with for a long time stopping me from having kids.
Used to have this problem. The only solution is to stop masturbating period to regain sensitivity. It took me a month roughly of not touching my penis. If this is difficult to do I’ve heard flesh lights help.
How does flesh light help here?
known-plum-leopard: So after a month, did the problem just go away completely for you?
I gather there’s some medication that helps with delayed ejaculation. Maybe speak to a doctor or urologist?
I’ve never done it but in theory. It is a fake vagina so therefore you are not deathgriplong yourself. But what I would highly reccomend and is the true way to get over this is to stop doing it by yourself and only do it with your partner, and introduce it every so often into your sexlife when he/she goes down on you. Or start it as foreplay… that’s a really good way to start the engine and keep it going.
What is flesh light and how does it hhelp?
I’ve never used a flashlight but some men swear by it for cure of delayed ejaculation.
Yes, in actual fact it worked a bit too well! One time I lasted only 25 secs! However unlike the op I could ejaculate to masturbation perfectly fine, just couldn’t do it with women vagina. So maybe he has to go without for a bit longer.
Fair enough. I’m not going to take your advice yourself - I’m single, so at the moment solo sex is what I’ve got and its where the problem lies. If I was to intentionally stop masturbating entirely for a month as a single guy, without an attractive partner to cuddle in the meantime, the risk of my body just completely losing interest in sex seems too high to me. I’ve an appointment to speak to my GP about the DE instead. Glad to hear your experience was really good though!
Hey all, just an update.
A few things have helped.
Now this is a journey, and you’ll have good days and bad days. I’ve came since trying the above.
A flesh light is basically one brand of male sex toy. Some might refer such apparatus as a “pocket pussy”, etc. I think the point is many have desensitized themselves to subtle sensations, in many regions of their body but not least in their penis, through a habituation in using their hand exclusively with a firm grip and often without lube. The point is an actual vagina feels quite different to a hand, and there’s the whole aspect of lubrication as well as a woman must be wet which is part of the sensations. And so, using an apparatus like a “flesh light” is sort of a training ground to familiarize yourself with a different sensation from their hand, something that actually closer to the sensation inside an actual vagina. I’ve been finding it quite helpful myself.
The hand is quite different to an actual vagina. Basically, such a male sex toy is actually closer to feeling like an actual vagina than the hand, and to use lube as a woman gets wet which is part of the sensation. And so, one is training through habituation playing with more subtler sensations than the death hand grip that desensitizes you. I’m finding such a toy as extremely helpful, limiting how much I play with my hand.