Just wanted to share my story with the community. I had a rough break up back in March with a long term girlfriend. We would have sex all the time and it was great, but despite that I have always had some performance anxiety so I would take Cialis the days we would hang out. It helped and I rarely had any erection issues with her and even stopped taking it as frequently after a while into our relationship. After we broke up in I have not had any sexual encounters until this last week. I started dating again and talking to a girl I met. After a couple dates and hangouts I took the pill and we would kiss and cuddle and I’d be extremely hard… but then when it became time for action I lost my erection even with the pill. The performance anxiety kicked in so hard and I went soft. I was so embarrassed and she didn’t worry about it, but then again today the same thing happened. It made me feel like a broken man. I just want to be able to get hard and stay hard when I need to without the pills. I’m hoping that this is the truth and will really help. If y’all have had anything similar happen to you guys I’d love to hear it or any feedback at all. Much love brothers
I was in an 11 year relationship/marriage that I ultimately ended. It was very difficult but the way my partner treaded me was seriously affecting my life. I started dating this stunningly beautiful woman who treats my better than anyone ever has. Due to my somewhat recent end to a long term relationship me and my new girl took a long time before we started having sex. The first time we tried I lost my erection in her. I was humiliated but she was so sweet about it. I’ve since tried pills a few time and they sorta help but I’ve learned that my mental health and outlook on sex is really in a bad place. Years of feeling unloved have seriously affected my self esteem. My girl and I have amazing sex but when that fear pops in my head I loose my firmness. I’m just starting this too so let’s pray it works. I think I’m truly in love for the first time and I want to make her happy.