Constantly thinking about losing erection while inside my partner

When I’m with a partner, and I’m inside them, I’m constantly worried about my erection going away because I can’t tell if I’m still erect, or soft. Is it normal to not be able to tell? I feel like I can tell by myself, but when I’m inside her, I just can’t tell and I’m constantly worried about it.

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Exactly! I feel the same way, and right now I’m tending to think I’m NOT hard when I actually am. What I really need to be is in the moment and enjoying the sensations instead if critiquing the quality of my wood!!

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Yea I’ll have the same problems but as the other guy said we really just need to drain out that inner critique that’s constantly giving us those negative thoughts or making us question everything instead drown that out and take control over your own thoughts and be In the moment enjoying the sensations from ur partner

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Agreed