Condom mood killer

🍆 Erection issues
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I’ve been seeing this girl that I’ve been friends with for years, but the last few times we’ve been doing stuff it takes me a while to get hard, then when I do and I put a condom on, I lose it.

I saw her tonight, we made out, I was eating her pussy and enjoying all of her body, she was playing with me whilst I was doing that, but I wasn’t fully hard. She was sucking me off and my dick got rock hard - I was enjoying ramming my cock down her throat and making her choke. All was well. But as soon as I put the condom on, I go soft.

I know that once I go inside her I will be okay, but there’s just something going on before that that just kills it for me. And it feels like there’s a time pressure to use it before it goes soft.

I know that I can go hard and stay hard if I play with myself (though usually requires pretty constant touching), so I think it is something in my head. But I just don’t know what to do.

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I mean, if you’ve been friends with her for years, is there enough trust there to let her know the effects condoms have on you and invite her to help you address it? Maybe the next time you’re done eating her out, she can go back to blowing you and use her mouth to apply the condom? Or you put it on, sit back, and make it her job to get you hard again? Some sensory deprivation might help you focus on the touch that might be reduced from the condom. Just ideas.