Over the past year I have tried to have sex with a number of girl but on every occasion I have not been able to get it up, it is worth noting that every time I have tried to do it I have had quite a bit of alcohol to drink that night so I don’t know if that has contributed to my issues. But after the first time I felt very ashamed and I ended up not trying with that same girl again. Recently I have met a new girl and again when we tried to get serious I could not get hard, I know that I was thinking about it and it got to the point that I just accepted my fate.
After that experience I decided to download this app which I was using for a little while on and off, trying to remember some of the talking points and techniques to stay relaxed, I ended up trying again with the same girl and again I could not get hard. I tried to use the techniques but I was still rather anxious and trying to focus on the moment clearly did not help the situation any. I now feel like it’s hopeless and I am worried because I really like this girl and she was so amazing and understanding about the situation thus far and was very relaxed about the situation and was trying to help me. But I fear that she will only be understanding about it for so long and I don’t want to lose her but I feel like it’s hopeless cause if it’s not worked so far when will it work
If anyone’s had any similar experiences or any advice on the situation id appreciate it