My wife and I have recently started trying to have a baby. It’s something we both want greatly, however every time we go to have sex recently, as soon as we start having sex I lose my erection. We had one time where I ejaculated very quickly then after that every time I can feel myself losing the erection as soon as we start. I then feel the pressure increase every time we have sex as it didn’t happen the last time. I have not struggled with erection issues before although usually finish quite quickly. It’s making me feel down when it happens but I also feel bad for her as it can’t make her feel good. As we’re both mid thirties we don’t feel like we can wait too long for kids and I think I may be wanting it too much.
Feel a bit lost with it and is damaging the self confidence as I feel unable to perform when in reality it’s needed most if we want children
Hey don’t get get disheartened. I’m sailing through the same boat as you. Just don’t overthink during sex. Remain calm
When you’re in the middle of it and penetration is close, let the inner animal take over and enjoy the moment. Remember that sex is something completely natural and think about how horny you are and how much you want to cum, be a bit selfish with it too and don’t get in your head too much, I know that’s easier said than done.
I can’t recommend the meditation exercises enough to go alongside your daily exercises that Mojo gives you, it really trains your brain to relax and remain calm in any situation you find challenging.
Good luck and remember, at some point in the future this will all be a thing of the past and you’ll be laughing to yourself at how hard you made it for yourself when all you needed was to take a step back and do what comes natural.
The message “keep calm and carry on” has never been truer for me. I was getting in a fluster one night as things weren’t going great, and simply said. “Just chill out and let’s see what happens, I’m happy we are simply being intimate”, was a game changer that night realising a loving partner just wants you to feel relaxed, happy and spend intimate time with you.
Should have said…my wife said
The pressure to perform and make a baby is playing in your mind. Remove those thoughts, enjoy the woman in front of you. Take time look at her , glow slow. Use the exercises in the program, do the kegel and box to box breathing before intercourse. Remember once baby comes sex will decline so make use of these moments 
was recently in same boat as you, after trying so long to have baby did lose erection, now no problem with ED but unfortunately also no baby, in any case i think mojo will help