I have no problems getting hard, I do have PE though, but the other thing I struggle with is not being able to go again after cumming once. My erection goes away and so does my desire and confidence. Anyone else struggle with this and/or have strategies?
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When I was in the marine corps and did alot of sprint training, say three days a week I only needed a ten minute break between sessions with the wife. I was in my mid 30s at the time. Give it a try
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Cumming once is normal. The first time I got hard a second time my girlfriend asked if that was a normal thing because she had never seen any other guy do that
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How long are you waiting between finishing and trying again? Have you tried practicing it on your own? That may be a good way to gauge whats possible / practice what works for you.
That’s pretty common. It’s called the refractory period, and every guy has one. It’s different for everyone one, usually a shorter amount of time for younger men and a longer amount of time for older men. If you want ti understand your refractory period, you could try going back to back in your masturbation session to understand where your baseline is.
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I think I need to try more often by myself but every time during sex I just go soft and it’s hard to get hard again
20 mins is usually a good break time for me
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Yep keep trying, you’re doing great!