So myself and the missus were getting it on tonight.
I was massaging her clit and went soft on her hands. She got very turned off and started to accuse me of not finding her attractive any more, watching too much porn (I do use porn) and talking about how I used to get hard distantly when seeing her naked.
Feeling very down and not good about myself. I feel like she makes ED some sort of personal failure.
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Maybe you need to point her towards some articles that describe your feelings or situation when it comes to ED. I imagine her frustration comes from a lack of understanding, not anger or disappointment.
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Thank you for your suggestion
Show her this app! Like many of us men on here, we have a huge misunderstanding of what is truly going on with us, between our bodies and minds. She will see, like all of us….that is a huge problem/ issue for allot of men and 9/10 times it’s a mental stress anxiety that is killing us and keeping us from truly enjoying one of life’s most natural and
Loving way to share yourself with another human being….especially with your wife