Any tips for this issue?

Hi all!

I’ve been in a very loving relationship for almost a year now (at the end of the month). I was able to have sex with her for the first 10 months, though I did initially had delayed ejaculation. This was an increasingly alarming issue, but we always thought it was doable and we could live with it. I started exercising more, and felt more fit to be able to make myself less exhausted in the moment. All of a sudden, in March, I wasn’t able to even get hard during foreplay. Once or twice I would be able to, but it was very hit or miss. I have recently began (past 2 weeks) decided to stop masturbating altogether (I was masturbating pretty frequently throughout), and I never watched porn. Initially, I believed that this was anxiety, as I am a pretty anxious person and the situation was stressing me out. But now, after having Mojo for about a month and feeling much less anxious overall, I’m starting to feel like the anxiety is an effect, and not a cause of what’s going on here. The only change in my life in the past 1-2 months is an increasing digestive problem. Additionally, I thought I’d mention that I got general blood work done, and I am pretty healthy across the board. Does this sound like anyone else’s story? I’ve kind of concluded in my head that the delayed ejaculation was caused by anxiety, but this ED problem seems out of left field.

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Hey there! Same here been a relationship for about a year too, had some issues within the last 3 months where it was difficult to get turned on and get hard. I found that anxiety was one of the major components for my ED. Been on the app for 2 months and seeing some improvements so far. Just being more present with myself, not letting my thoughts rush me in the moment and connecting with my breath. Also being open with my partner has been very helpful to! Hope this helps!

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Yea, I’ve been using the app for a bit, and I feel better on my confidence overall, but I feel like what may be happening now is just thinking about whether I can perform in the moment. It seems like a matter of rerouting this thinking—overthinking—and just enjoying what is going on. Its easier said than done but the libido boosters and the libido boosting meditation has helped put things in perspective. Feel this may take a while but I’m willing to keep going, and I have a prescription for Viagra now as something to fall back on