I can get hard thinking about my partner or looking at a picture of her and even at random times with her. But the anticipation of knowing it’s going somewhere kills anything. It’s like the anxiety is the grim reaper to my boner!
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I think you will hear this situation repeated time and time again here… and it was/still is my issue.
Mojo is really helping. The box breathing, and getting out of your head… the mediation… all work… it does take time and effort , with is a bit annoying… because sex should all be “so bloody natural and wonderful… “but for me it wasn’t… but it’s a whole lot better after a few months on mojo…
it can work…
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Same here man. Same here.
My wife TURNS ME ON. I think she’s so sexy and I love the way her body feels. I’ve never lasted very long, but it’s been bad for the last few years. And for whatever reason (still trying to figure it out) I had developed a pretty debilitating case of performance anxiety which has handed me ED/PE. I just get so nervous and worried that I’m going to not get hard and finish as soon as I’m able to penetrate, and then it becomes a self- fulfilling prophecy.
You are not alone in any of this.
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