I signed up to Mojo to help with issues with premature ejaculation which have arisen for me again recently. I’ve been seeing someone new for about 2 months. For the first 6 weeks I felt really excited and aroused, more or less all the time, and I was masterbating a lot. Because I was masterbating a lot I wasn’t really having any issues lasting and I felt very confident and secure in my sexual abilities. In the last week or so the premature ejaculation has crept back in and has created some anxiety for me. I signed up to Mojo to try and address this but I can’t do the masterbation based exercises (squeeze one, for example) because i just can’t get erect or aroused when I go to masterbate, even with the help of porn. I feel aroused thinking about my new partner but I can’t seem to get fully erect.
I’ve noticed the amount of judgment and expectation I place on myself to perform. I’ve been trying over the last week to peel this back and accept myself as I am and to just experience and enjoy intimacy without fixating on performance during penetrative sex.
Just wondering if anyone has a similar experience with or feedback on the above