PE turning into ED and creating performance anxiety

I signed up to Mojo to help with issues with premature ejaculation which have arisen for me again recently. I’ve been seeing someone new for about 2 months. For the first 6 weeks I felt really excited and aroused, more or less all the time, and I was masterbating a lot. Because I was masterbating a lot I wasn’t really having any issues lasting and I felt very confident and secure in my sexual abilities. In the last week or so the premature ejaculation has crept back in and has created some anxiety for me. I signed up to Mojo to try and address this but I can’t do the masterbation based exercises (squeeze one, for example) because i just can’t get erect or aroused when I go to masterbate, even with the help of porn. I feel aroused thinking about my new partner but I can’t seem to get fully erect.

I’ve noticed the amount of judgment and expectation I place on myself to perform. I’ve been trying over the last week to peel this back and accept myself as I am and to just experience and enjoy intimacy without fixating on performance during penetrative sex.

Just wondering if anyone has a similar experience with or feedback on the above

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I’m having similar issues, although I stopped masturbating almost as soon as my sex life with my partner started. About 2 months ago I experienced difficulty lasting more than 1 round and occasional difficulty getting hard for 1-2 weeks, so I downloaded MOJO. After that it sort of disappeared but it was always at the back of my mind. For the next month and a bit I could easily get hard but I had trouble lasting 2 rounds without a large break in between, and this steadily worsened until recently, where I now find it hard to get hard for sex, and especially staying hard during it. My libido is very low because of the anxiety, and I’m worried I can’t get rid of it. It is placing stress on my relationship with my partner as I feel I can’t satisfy her, but I am young (18) so I am confident it is just mental. I am in my head way too much and am trying meditation to clear my mind of intruding thoughts. sex therapies and even mojo are way too expensive as I’m a uni student, so I’m not sure where to go from here.