Really attacked the exercises. Pelvic floor and meditations and such. And then tried to give her a massage and really take things slowly and I couldn’t keep an erection. She’s still so comfortable and comforting and she asks what I need and want….after the fact. I’m ashamed and so like defeated that no progress and feeling horrid. She’s saying things while we’re kissing and foreplay like, “ugh I want her inside of me.” And other such sexual desirable things. And I just cannot keep an erection and not even get super hard. Went to the doctor and my testosterone levels are normal and fine. My mental fortitude is awful. I for the life of me cannot enjoy the moment. She’s blowing me and I can’t get out of my head. I try to refrain and it doesn’t work. I still get this like “numb” feeling like I can’t feel it. When I jerk it it’s close to hard but goes down super quickly. So tough to feel like I’m ready to try and failing weekly.
What did your test levels come back as?
It was a little over 700.
I’m experiencing the same thing it’s genuinely horrible
Im using viagra when things go that bad, starting with 50 mg and slowly lowering the dosage, other things that I’m using is having sex with viagra in the morning then if there is a vibe im doing it late in tge evening again , i found 2 positive things , first you have very good sex witg the pill so your partner will be satisfied then late in the evening you can try it again, the pill will not work till then but the pressure will be a lot less cuz you will not feel the urge to perform good. For me this is working and pushing my confidence up when im in numb and negative streak phase
I second this. When using viagra I have no trouble with erections the same day and the next day. Using the pill really does boost confidence and helps with issues even after it has worn off
I don’t have viagra pills but I tried hims pills. I’m soooooo in my head that I’m not sure pills will
Work. The hims didn’t work. I’m sooooo in my head that I can’t get and stay hard. I need a mental hack or things she can do or I can that might change things up.
Yes, first time i used it it doesnt worked because of the tremendous pressure, the idea is to trust it 100% it’s working very well and when u do it few times with it u can try lower the dosage to 25 mg then few times that way and slowly cut the pill so it bbecome 20-17-15-10 mg and so on. Once you do it with 20 mg or less its only the placebo effect. That strategy saved my relationship when we first faced the problem, just dont rely only on it and always try without once your mind start to calm down. Wish you luck 
I can relate, a lot. I’ve been dealing with this for years. Pills didn’t work at all. I tried all the formulations. My new gf is awesome, and patient. She wants to overcome this together. I’ve been focusing on how to get out of my head. It’s hard but will be worth it.