I’ve been with my gf since march. I literally haven’t been able to properly keep an erection yet. I went to the doctor and my testosterone is normal and I get erections on my own. But when I’m with her I just can’t. I’ve went through the exercises numerous times here. Now it’s too the point she doesn’t even try to get me off because it’s frustrating to her and obviously me as well. I’m at my wits end and now I’m so anxious to even see her it’s ridiculous. Something so easy as I’m attracted to her and I can’t get it up and keep it up. Wtf
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Same here brother
Same here, bro!This is in your head. Meditate, do the execises every day and result should come!
Sorry to hear that, I wonder if are there other ways you can work yourself up to it (in addition to doing the exercises). Maybe start by masterbating in the dark with her present or something, then watching/ participating. Don’t let the inner critic take control, you’ve got this!
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We’ll have you thought about taking some pills like bluechew to help you till you get more comfortable??
I’m with you bro I’m 20 and have the same issue with my girlfriend I’ve been dating for over a year
My problem has been persistent too but there are some things that help me:
- viagra. Get it on Hims, no talking to anyone required. This really helps when nothing else does. If you have success, start to slowly wean off it.
- get creative. For example, try putting porn on a laptop, having her touch herself in prone position, you touch yourself behind her. There’s no pressure so it’s easier to get hard.
- intimate connection. Kind of a requirement for #2. But focusing on what you love about her leading up to and during sex can help get you out of your head.